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Hi all,

I am getting many queries regarding how to manage ur respective blog contributions or visit the site etc. and am trying to answer them here. Do write to me if you need any assistance or want to join in:

• How can see the LovingSpace blog?

You are already on the blog.

Quite like a traditional website, you can log on to a blog by keying in the url. In this case http://lovingspace.blogspot.com .Simply type it in the browser window to reach here.

• I logged on and can see other people's post but cannot post my contribution!

To contribute, you will have to first be INVITED. Just drop me a mail and I will invite you. Register and you can contribute.

Once you have registered and wish to contribute anytime... you will have to come through, let's say, the back-door entry.

Type www.blogger.com .Feed in your username & password and enter www.blogger.com . You can now see the dashboard. Follow the instructions to make a new post/ edit a post . You can also edit your profile and let rest of the bloggers know more about yourself. You can also visit the blog logged in from www.blogger.com Click the link that says 'view blog'. You can now see how your post reads...

If someone you know from the group is not clear, do share this information with them.

THE REAL TRUTH

Dear all,
Hope we all are in good spirits post our "DNA Transformation"....tramsforming into a newer and much joyous being.
Hope we are giving ourselves time or atleast making a sincere intention(good enuf to start to with..hwever nothing good as taking an action) to immerse n indulge in atleast that one joy and happiness that we discussed on sun.
Was reading somthing ..liked it ..felt like sharing it with you all........
lots of lv to all
urs
kanika

The Real Truth
Whatever we believe about a person or situation is the truth as we know it. We are aware of the reality that we choose to see. Even in our closest relationships, our version or understanding of the truth will be different from some else's, as each of us sees the world through our own eyes. When what we believe to be the truth creates problems for us, it is because we have an emotional attachment to what we want to be true and there is a conflict with what 'is'. It is the difference between 'our truth' and the 'real truth'. Being willing to see the 'real' truth can make the difference between joy and pain, abundance and lack, and peace and chaos in our lives.
What is the 'real' truth and how does it differ from what we see as the truth? Our truth allows us to stay in a painful relationship, believing that our love will change someone's behavior or beliefs. The 'real truth' in this situation is acknowledging that they have their own truth about their reality and they may not want to change. Our truth allows us to believe that we are not worthy or cannot create the reality of our dreams; the 'real truth' is that we can do, be and have whatever we desire. Wherever there is conflict in our lives, it is because there is conflict between our truth and the 'real truth'. And the conflict can be resolved by determining what kind of emotional investment we have in proving our truth to be real.
Any place in our lives where we struggle is an example of our not facing the 'real truth'. If we struggle in our job, is it possible that we need to be somewhere else? If we struggle with our partner, is it possible that we need to be without this person? If we are in conflict with any part of our lives, it is the Universe pointing the truth to us. Are we paying attention? We may continue to struggle and the Universe will continue to point out the truth until we stop struggling and let ourselves see the truth. I can almost hear the Universe breathing a sigh of relief as we step out of trying to prove that we know the truth and allow it to be revealed to us.
Life can be as easy or as difficult as we choose to make it. The truth hurts only when we refuse to acknowledge the 'real truth' because when we struggle with any aspect of our lives, we have a strong emotional investment in being right and proving our truth. The fact that we are struggling should be a sign to us that something is wrong. Can we release ourselves from our attachment to the outcome that we want to happen and let the 'real truth' reveal itself? It always does, whether we want it or not, and then we must reconcile our truth to it. But once we do, our lives can be free from conflict and only those things that are in our Highest Good will be part of our reality and we will be in alignment with the 'real truth'.

Someone I met for the first time yesterday made me feel truly blessed!

We were meeting for the first time and were sharing what we had been upto. She mentioned that she had adopted Vipassana as a way of life. I responded that I too had heard about it. However, confessed that beyond the fact that it involves 10 days of silent meditation I really didn't know much about it. Laughing, I added that I would someday love to attend when I can find someone to take care of dad for 10 day so I could be away.

It took her perhaps less than a second to respond that she will look after him. The earnestness of her voice and expressions told me that she wasn't joking.

We had met barely 15 mins ago. Something tells me that I am truly blessed.

Simple to join!

Hi all,

I haven't received many requests from the group to join in and contribute. I guess many would like to know more about what a blog is - this may help http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blog. How to create one for yourself? You really don't need to worry, just write me a mail at rajesh.lalwani@gmail.com and follow the steps on the invite - it takes 2 minutes and then it is simply like writing a mail. Look forward to seeing more of you here!

Love

Rajesh

Vipul's heartfelt message.

- Vipul wrote this heartfelt message that I wanted to share. Do respond to him - Love, Rohini -


Hello Rohini,

I received this mail and I wanted to write something in reply. When I would be driving then I would know what to write but when I would sit down to write no words would come in my head. But I still want to write so I can empty the burden on my soul.

When I say I walked through that door and felt a different life I was not lying about that.
Metaphorically speaking yes its true but if I analyze it in reality I guess being with a set of people who are practically unaware of my stinking dark secrets and the situation I come from, my fears and my anger my frustration etc etc makes all the difference.

There at your place I "get to be" and I " get to be with" the kind of people with whom I feel I can connect intellectually and if I have the luxury of more time then I would love to chat with each and every one of them.
New faces of all age groups and a different environment and different intellect, fresh outlook from the old tried and trusted patterns, people who feel together and share their feelings with strangers "opps no more strangers" people who follow their heart and want to make that difference may be 18 or 80 but still.
No stupid conversation of the last night "SAAS BAHU" serial and no Saas or Bahu at your house! Just individuals.

Rohini maam last Sunday's meeting gave me a feeling that I want to LIVE I really want to live. For this first time I want to be selfish. For this first time I want to have someone in my life who is not constantly judging me. I am 30 yrs old and feel every day that by the time I can think of my life coming on the OK track will cost me another 2 years, and this scares me that the golden years of my life are passing by and iam still looking in every pretty face around me trying to find someone with whom I can grow old with. For whom I can make that special surprise breakfast in the morning and take care of her for the rest of my life. I know I sound like a collage boy and maybe iam committing a crime even thinking all this given the situation iam in, but my conscious is clear and iam not guilty and my heart and mind knows that. It's unfortunate that I never found anybody who can "BE" with me and relate rather judge me. You know maam if ever you get to know that what iam into maybe you call up jeeten and ask him to keep me away from the Meetings.

Constant failures in relations have broken me and I feel that maybe iam not meant for them but then why do I look for them if it's not meant to be.

Maam when I was in collage I made a priority list and one of the points was to give a live interview on a business channel before the age of 30.

I have given 3 interviews till now on all the major channels and another one on 15th august but whom do I share this with.

There is no point in a success if you cannot share it with that one person.

You must have heard this cry millions of times and it might sound like just another one.

But maam I now want to live not survive or exit. I want to get rid of the negative souls who have capture and ruptured my existence my heart & my soul.

I don't know that reiki can help me or not but I know that while iam writing this to you iam already positive and feeling good and I can see a ray of hope and a gush of that unseen energy in me.

I don't know that it's a divine light or it's my inner self but I know that the entire idea of meeting so many people at your haven gives me a feeling that iam increasing my circle and how much love, affection and caring is there around me. It surprises me that I don't even know the names of these people and still I connect with them at some level. I recollect their faces and would love to have each and every one of them as my friends.

With this I pray for every one's happiness and may god brings us all the deserved joy and fulfillment in our lives.

"Total love and general joy"

Until we meet again

ADIOS,


Vipul